How to Be Caring in a Relationship in 14 Sweet Ways

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How to be caring?

How you show someone you care about them?

How do you take care of your partner?

If you have tried doing everything for your partner but still you are not successful. Then you are in the right place. We will provide you with sweet simple ways to make your partner happy.

Showing genuine care to your partner makes them feel happy. Don't try to be caring if it's not coming from the inner you. 

Do not be fake to yourself, do it only if you want to show genuine care to your partner.

People tend to show care when they have fear of losing their partner or want to save the relationship. Do not be caring only at that moment.

Take a moment to remember all the care and romance you showed to your partner at the start of your relationship.

After a while the reason of declined care is simple. You have started to neglect the relationship and you are focused on your personal goals.

You fail to give proper attention to your partner when you are being selfish.

Show small acts of kindness let it be verbal or nonverbal. Be caring by surprising your partner often.

These small acts are the lifeline of a good relationship. Be always there with your partner when they want you the most. 

Do not run away from stressful situations. When you have decided to live a life with your partner. 

The only importance you should give is to the partner. No third person or your friends should have an impact on your relationship.

If you give more importance to people around you and put your partner aside. You will end up being in a toxic relationship or you will lose your partner.

Start today and be caring on a consistent basis. Below are some sweet ways to show love.

1. Be Sensitive to Feelings.

Spend your time thinking about how the other person is feeling. Be in his/her shoes and think what you would have done or how would you have felt in the given situation?

Understand your partner's mood and take actions.

Know when your partner is upset, happy, anxious etc. If you cannot judge, try asking in a simple way.

For example:- I am in a happy mood but my boyfriend is stressed out due to some work issues. He is sad and stressed about the work life. In this situation, if I act in a bad manner because he is not 
able to give me proper time and then  I start roaming around with other guys or my friends. He will feel very sad about it. 

So try to stop yourself from being selfish. Rather go and meet your partner to put efforts on making him feel happy. 

Be caring by showing the love you have. Make him feel relaxed and show you are there for him.

2. Know How Your Actions Affects Your Partner.

There are times when your partner won't like the way you act.

This can be caused by different ways of thinking or because you both are a different person.

For example:- You are acting in an over-friendly manner with other guys you have in your life. But this not might be the case with him. He will feel jealous about it or he might feel low of importance. So know how your actions are affecting your partner feelings. Do not hurt him by the way you act.

You are too busy making your self happy. If you want your personal happiness then why did you chose to be in a relationship?

Change your actions which suits your relationship. You are not single anymore, you can't keep on doing the same things which you did when you were single.

Even ignoring your partner phone call while being out with friends can lead to problems. Rather ignoring the call, you can pick up, talk for 3 minutes and tell him you will call once home. 

Be caring and show your partner that he is in the first preference list. This small act will lead you to the best relationship you want.

3. Put Efforts and Do Not Easily Give Up.

You have to be caring every now and then, You cannot make a relationship work without putting efforts.

You have to develop relationship skills to keep your partner happy.

I hope you don't easily give up on him/her when you have a fight or when stressful situations occur.

Develop skills like expressing your feelings in a kind manner. Resolving conflicts without fighting or talking loud. Listening while understanding the situation properly etc.

Be caring threw out your relationship to build a strong bond for long-term goals.

Do not live on hope, Hope will do nothing for you. Your efforts and your actions will give you rewards.

Gladly do things for your partner, it will make you feel good.

4. Don't Talk in a Rude Manner Because You Are Angry.

People have a habit of screaming and being rude because they are angry.

This anger doesn't last long, but your words can have a great emotional impact on your partner. You know your anger will end in max 1 hour. But the words were spoken when angry won't come back.

You will also go back to your partner confessing you were angry. Do not think confession will work here. You have hurt your partner by your words and that's all.

Many people have a habit of doing this on a repeated basis. I hope you are not the one.

Anger will take you nowhere in a relationship. Control your anger and be caring.

If you feel angry by some words your partner has said to you. Keep calm and tell your partner in a simple way that you don't like the way he/she talks. Rather than arguing like cats and dogs.

If you still feel angry, take your time to get relaxed and then talk to your partner.

5. Don't Say it, Do it.

Show actions before your loved one asks for it, This is a very powerful tool to make your partner happy.

You have always promised but have done nothing. Breaking promises or giving hopes by words ain't working here.

If you want to be caring show it by actions.

When you show actions you will get rewarded. Actions will show your partner the care you have.

Your partner will feel secure, loved, given importance,  if you keep on showing actions.

Don't keep promising everything and then end up breaking it.

Don't take your relationship to a point where your words won't matter anymore.

6. Be Caring by Showing Appreciation.

If you want to be more caring, then you have to appreciate your sweetheart for what he/she does.

Be thankful for the support your partner has given to you. 

Be thankful for the efforts and sacrifices your partner has done 
for the relationship.

Speak out whatever you feel good about your partner. Focus on only the positive part of your relationship.

Speak about the joy and happiness which your sweetheart has got in your life. Thank your sweetheart for supporting you in bad times. Appreciate her/him for doing you favors, being crazy etc.

Appreciating your partner will put you in a better frame of mind.

7. Observe With Attention.

If you want to be caring you have to pay close attention to your partner about what he/she is doing in daily life.

Understand your partner's needs, feelings, expression, body gestures, hand moments. To know exactly what's going on.

For example:- You had a fight last night with your girlfriend. The next day you are meeting her and you asked a question. Are you over the fight we had last night? There are 100 percent chances that your girlfriend will say yes. But you don't have to accept it. Pay close attention to hand gestures, eyes, and facial expressions. If eyes are swollen then normal this means she cried last night and shes yet not over it. If she looks downwards with a fake smile on face, Then she is trying not to cry in front of you.

Learn to be caring by intense observations. It is not a simple process but you will learn with practice.

8. Be Polite.

Being polite with your partner will make you a more caring person.

Being polite is to show your partner that you are determined to treat him/her with respect.

Be caring and show good manners in front of people. Rather than disrespecting your partner in front of others.

Always speak in a polite way with your partner when you have someone around.

You don't have to act formally to be polite. You have to have a smiling face and some common courtesy. To make your partner comfortable in your presence.

9. Be Affectionate.

If you want to show your care, show affection to your partner.

Cuddling or giving a tight hug to your partner is a way of showing that you care. Hugs are very effective to bring instant comfort.

Show other signs of physical love like kissing, holding hands, pats etc.

You don't have to feel shy to express, physical touch has a great impact on feelings.

10. Offer Help.

There are many simple acts of kindness we tend to ignore in our daily life.

You can be caring by offering help which your partner needs in daily life.

Try to get a glass of water after dinner for him/her. Offer the last cookie rather than eating it all. Ask if he/she needs any help in office work. Ask if she/he needs help in household works.

Try to offer help before she/he asks you for help.

Being generous will make you a more caring person. We all have busy schedules, but doing favors and helping your partner will make you climb the ladder fast.

11. Apologize Often But Don't Lose Self Respect.

You have to apologize when you are wrong. Be comfortable in accepting you are not a perfect person if it is your mistake. 

Don't let pride spoil your relationship when you are wrong.

Don't try to force a decision to make yourself right.

But what if you are not wrong? It's a very tricky situation.

Try to solve things even if you are not wrong. Apologize to be caring even if you are not wrong. But with time if things don't go right and your partner keeps on blaming you for everything. 

You don't have to lose self-respect to make things right. Try to give time to your partner and then talk it out.

You should have a limit of apologizing. If too often arguments are happening. Try to stick to what's right.

12. Be Low-Key.

Don't keep on saying what you did for your partner. Be caring and low-key to let your partner know your importance.

If you are showing your care, never speak about it. Show care in a very neutral manner.

If you speak of what you did for your partner. Your partner will never appreciate you and will argue that he/she has put an equal amount of efforts.

13. Don't Be Selfish.

It is hard sometimes to not be selfish. Many people do everything for their partner but don't get anything in return.

Getting nothing in return will make you selfish.

You might even get frustrated to give and not get anything in return.

Control your feelings of selfishness. Focus on your partner and understand what he/she is up to.

You have to be more aware of your partner if you want to truly care for him/her.

You don't have to ignore your own needs for the sake of your partner. Try to maintain a good balance between your needs and partners.

14. Give Surprises.

Everyone loves a surprise, Try to engage your relationship with a spark of surprises.

Book a candlelight dinner without letting her/him know about the plan.

Make some good handmade gifts for her/him if you know the craft.

Plan an instant surprise trip to spend some good time showing your care. 

Make a plan to watch a movie together at home cuddling and talking for a night.

Try to be caring by making your other half smile with a surprise.
January 28, 2019